Fuck shit up

Sometimes, some days, the only thing that makes it better is just fucking some shit up. It’s interesting to me because I’ll self psychoanalyze and determine it has something to do with unchecked rage, and y’know what? Yes, yes it fucking does. Some days, rage is the only rational response. It won’t always be that way, but sometimes it is.

Like this week for example…. a truly spectacularly shitty week in the news…. largest mass shooting in modern history, death of a rock icon, more insults from the cheeto in chief…. it’s just too much for one Domme to bear. So the natural conclusion is to beat the ever loving shit out of something. Luckily I have a heavy bag hanging in my backyard. It’s not as satisfying as a whimpering man, but we all have our crosses to bear.

This entire tangent got me thinking about the ways that kink helps us cope. So first off, we’ve all read about how BDSM practitioners are generally more healthy than others. (Right? I mean you’ve read it, RIGHT!?) The premise being, we engage in these taboo activities with intent, consent, and to a certain degree, meaning. All of which are far healthier than the DSM concept of paraphilic disorders. Essentially, we engage in these activities not from a place of emotional damage or distress, but more often than not, from a place of somewhat reasoned desire/urge. I suppose to Freud the difference would be inconsequential. Good thing we’re not listening to that repressed asshole.

So what does this all mean? It means sometimes it’s okay to want to beat the shit out of someone or something (with consent). That desire, or even that act, doesn’t by default make you a psychopath. It could make you a well-balance individual. At least that’s what I tell my therapist. 🙂

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